From: KinkyArtsyNerd on Apr 01 17, 19:08

I just moved up to the North Seattle area to help take care of my mom and grew up in the Northwest though not in the Seattle area. I am an introvert and avoid the bar scene and cigarette smoke for my health. I like to dance if there is a smoke free place to do so. I am not sure where to make new lesbian friends. I go to the gym and actively ignore everyone there with my music an headphones on so I don't have to deal with dudes staring at me.

I am fairly butch looking but I hate watching sports and I can't stand football culture. I do like to be active with walking, roller skating, dancing, maybe biking but I need time afterwards to rest and do something more restful. Large crowds use up my energy quickly and I have to plan out how much time I can spend in those type of places.

I like reciprocity, connection, mindfulness. I think it is important to give people room to grow and be who they are. I think it doesn't matter where on the butch/femme or gender spectrum you appear to be. What matters is who you are the way you show yourself to others, the way you respect yourself and the value you give to what is important to you. Self possession is a great thing.

I am usually hanging around the art and cookbooks at local bookstores and libraries. I go for walks around town to find a place near the water to do some sketching or write some poetry. I am learning lefty guitar at home and I am self taught in a lot of the creative things I do. I learned how to cook and sew from my grandmother and I learned how to make much of what I do my own.

I like board games, word games, tabletop gaming. I like video games that are fantasy based with problem solving and character development. I don't play first person shooters.

Send me a message if you want to chat or hang out! 

From: Stephpanda on Oct 25 15, 22:39

finally making my way out of the closet, slowly but surely. looking for friendship, advice, maybe more as time goes on.
love movies, music, swimming, coffee, local parks, trying new restaurants, Netflix.

want to get out and meet girls but not sure how to go about it, am a little shy and reserved at first.

in the Seattle area.

 

From: Arabella110 on Aug 25 15, 05:43 (edited: Aug 25 15, 05:44)

Hello :) I'm 15 and have never dated a girl. I figured out I was pansexual when I entered the 7th grade. I've only dated a boy but it didn't really work out. I'm really caring and passionate. Age isn't a huge problem for me but I'd like you to be at least 16. I'd love to talk and get to know you :D thank you very much. Contact me with Kik. It's Maylee110  

From: Alizais on Mar 05 14, 04:48 (edited: Mar 27 14, 03:23)

I'm seeking a date with someone near Seattle, Portland, or Ellensburg. I'm interested in dating a lesbian who has at least a bachelor's degree and is financially stable. I'm also interested in someone between 18 and 38 (plus or minus 10 years of my age), single, and without children. Someone who isn't addicted to drugs nor alcohol and someone who doesn't smoke. I'm sorry, but kissing someone who has sucked on that cancer stick is disgusting and smelling them is bad.

I am an Atheist with little patience for those who are serious in their superstitions (e.g. not going forward with a financial transaction because the amount came up to $6.66) or devoted so much to their god that science and objective truth-finding is obscured by faith.

I'm attracted to slender femmes. Or at least gender neutral. Other than that, appearance is of little concern to me. If you are kind, empathetic, understanding, responsible, intelligent, hygienic, and positive then that is what matters to me. I'm short, chubby, ethnically East Asian, and physically strong and flexible. I'm mostly gender neutral and dress like a tomboy. If appearance matters to you, hopefully what I just described isn't a deal breaker.

If you are not near me, and if we hit it off online, I wouldn't mind travelling to meet you one day. I've been to, and stayed in, NYC, LA, Seattle, San Francisco, Russia, China, Japan, and S. Korea so I have some experience with travelling.
 

From: Brina42 on Feb 10 14, 09:03 (edited: Feb 16 14, 04:42)

Hi I'm Sabrina I'm latina n loving big heart I'm looking for a honest n open-minded woman to be in my life I don't play games. I'm looking for a mature woman to be in my life.  

From: Freenix101 on Nov 27 13, 09:40 (edited: Feb 08 21, 05:29)

*UPDATE 2021: A lot has changed in the last 6 years; I transitioned from FTM and thus became inactive on Shoe, and now identify as Non-Binary, so I recently (as of Feb 2021) decided to begin using this site again since my gender identity is no longer specifically male and is non-binary.

Hello there, I'm dogrl101.

I am a confused, young, compassionate individual that has been beat up and hardened by life. I am looking for...well...anyone, really. Friends, mostly. People I can help, people that can help me; I am open to a serious relationship, too, although not exactly 'looking'.

I suppose you could say i enjoy thinking and discussing philosophy?? And, I am hella talented in all kinds of crazy, weird and randomly amazing ways.

I can do your hair. (it looks like a professional did it!) Cut, dyed, highlights, trims, layers...I can do it.

I can do your nails. (not just any manicure...I know about hand massage and pressure points that relieve stress through the hands, too...)

I can edit photos.

I can make websites. (they look legit!)
I can sing. (4 octave range.)

I write songs. (love songs...??)

I write short stories and poetry.

I can also read your mind! (I am psychically gifted....I know you don't believe me, but I can prove it. Just ask anyone in chat, or ask me in a message about some event in your life... I can read it from your mind.)

I am Pagan.

I am feel confused, lost, scared, a bit isolated, to be honest. I think I am transgender, I think I am a man.

I'd say I am very butch, but that isn't exactly the case, as I shudder at the thought of living like this, in this body, forever. I long to be male, and now have decided to change my name soon. However, I am still figuring out exactly who and what I am.

I am very attracted to femme girly ladies, :3 But right now I just wanna make some friends...??

^^ *said the person who is forever alone -_-

I have PTSD, and require a service dog for it.

More? OK.

My dad used to beat me, I hate my family, I have crazy awesome luck dispite that and used to self harm? I was nearly raped a few times and experience some form of sexual abuse at least once a year.

I am 5'6, blue eyes, short brown hair (its guy hair obviously,) light pale skin, average build? I have my left cartilage pierced, my belly button pierced, and my ears. I am very muscular, thanks to T!! :D


I also know how to belly dance. O.e

Hey, all I am looking for is some nice, caring, compassionate and open minded friends. I belive that age is just a number, and that people are people, no matter what shape/form/gender. If your looking for some deep, meaningful conversations with someone who is a 'blank slate', or ever need to vent, or even just want a friend... Drop me a line. :) Chances are, I'll know your situation just as good, if not better than you do.

Thank you, I hope we can become great friends!!! (i am single and open to possibilities... but not looking for opportunities. Theres no chance unless you take one.  

From: Xmaslady on Dec 09 12, 01:27

Hi, I am looking for someone to love are you? I have waited all my life to hold my love and to pamper her... Is it you? I hope so I want to have the riches life ever. If you have been hoping for that too here I am!!!

I love to take trips, enjoy my dog, be with friends and try new things...

I want to hold you, love you, and spoil you!!!

Come on sweetie... take a chance... you will never know until
you do... Check me out. I could be your one and only!!!

Xmaslady friends call me Dre!!! 

From: ADragonmask on Feb 11 12, 16:07

OK so..... My friends thought i should post an add just to see what happence.....here goes...... I'm soon to be 44, long red hair, green hazel eyes, and the body of a goddess.( i didn't say which one) I guess i would say i am a hippy, skirt wearing type,420 friendly and i talk to my cat because he makes more sense then my friends did when they decided i should do this.
I am heavily attracted to butches... I could entertain the idea of dating a femme but lets be honest.... there is only room for one baby girl in a relationship. I am not butch enough to pull off the other.I am very strong willed and independent as well as spirited in many ways. I'm a flirt and you must take me as i am and trust that in a relationship regardless of my flirty side i only have eyes for one.
I am going threw more life changes now then any one has the right to do at once but change is good and so is exploration of self. So that's what I'm doing I have come to realize that i can no longer wait around for my life to start. I have also reached the end of the drama train wagon and refuse to have that in my world. My greatest strength and weakness is that i am kind hearted. but i have a wonderful B.S. detector and have learned how to use it.If I'm confused i will clarify until i get answers.
I am looking for friends who are willing to take "snail's pace" as an answer and not read into my flirty side for something more. It is more of an honor to wait and find out what unfolds in time rather then jump because your feeling froggy. I am looking for some one who is willing to get to know me as well as me getting to know them. It never works if both of those components aren't there.
If your interested, you can find me on shoe. Just look for Dragonmask.... i am the only one.